Relational memory: birthdays, gift ideas, promises, last contact.
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Relational memory — birthdays, gift ideas, promises, last contact. Capture the “ooh I like that” moment in July so December isn’t a blank. Surfaced by daily-tick near birthdays and stale check-ins.
People
Person
Relationship
Birthday
Gift ideas / notes
Last contact
Next action
Sophia
Girlfriend
Annie
24 Jun
Gift for her (birthday was 24 Jun — seeing her 8 Aug)
✅ Done
Alan
Email him
Harry
Reply to him
Promises & owed
Made to
What
When promised
Status
Notes
Birthday dates: cross-checked with HA calendar.birthdays.
When you mention someone liking something, wanting something, or a date to remember — I log it here so it’s there when it matters.
Stale check-in (no contact > 3 weeks for close people) gets surfaced by daily-tick.